Fortune Future

Few days ago my friend told me about her experience with a fortune teller. Usually it starts with something significant in the past then some bothering issue in the present and end with a vague future.  I have nothing against fortune teller in fact I kind of think that it is a good thing if you still holding your own faith. Meaning that you won’t get easier drag to whatever they have to say.

Many people think this is superficial and it makes no sense. Maybe you are right but you can also be wrong. Do not judge because there’s nothing to judge. It is what I call “a personal thing”. People go to fortune teller for many reasons. Some try to fix the past with the present deed, some try do what they can do now to prevent a bad future. After all we all hope for great things in life, or have you not?

In my opinion fortune teller is a little bit of psychologist therapy for what I hope with less money. Sometime you tell the person your little secret or some question that have been bothering you for a long time but having a hard time getting it out.   First of all, it always good to get it out! A sense of relief no matter the answer is what you want to hear or not. Second we always got wrap up in our head and it always nice to hear some guidance. (Take it or not is your choice) Third we need to have some sort of faith or belief.  And to be honest everyone curious about what will happen to our future life (Probably not all perspective but some of the issue we are dealing with).

I don’t actually have any proves that fortune telling is statistic, math of some sort, coincident, pure luck, super power or pure fake. To me, science cannot always explain things and in my opinion some of the thing is unexplainable. Maybe some of this power is real maybe some of this is people taking advantage of your curiosity. But one thing I cannot deny is most of us that agree to see glimpse of our future come out with some kind of peace. I also believe that future is in your hands. If you don’t work for it, nothing will come out of it and that is the fortune I can tell you right now.   

I said "I do"

In this past couple of years many of my friends is either getting married or having kids. I guess we are in our 30’s and in that period of life where we should start a family of our own. I am very happy for all of them who settling down and especially one who found their true love.

My best friend is getting married on the 5^th of May, 2012 (AKA 2555 in Thai year) and I could not be any happier for them. Both future bride and groom are my friends for more than 10 years, one is annoying than another and one have been my BFF for as long as I know her. I did not really think I was able to be a cupid to any of my friends but I guess in this case I did. They fell in love and been together ever since. In this occasion I guess I could say it will be happily ever after for them. After all the smiles and the struggle they had been through, it is a great evident of their true love. I wish them nothing but happiness and love. Be patient to one another and remember all the understanding you both have been through. Love you guys!

I am so super excited for the wedding!! And we gonna fly home before and helping out with the event as much possible as we can. Thus I am half way around the world from my friends now I hope I do manage to help her out with whatever she need. So I become a little researcher with the wedding event. I spend some hours looking at the wedding dresses, the rings, bride mate dresses, theme, and etc. and I think at some point it scared my boyfriend.

Truth is I have always enjoying looking at other weddings, it is very inspiring moment of love! But when it comes to some of my closest friend who happens to be at the same age same circle I cannot help but think about my own future big day as well. I am not going to lie I dream away of that day as well but reality keep me to the ground and reminded me what is also important in order to have such dreamy come true. I have no doubt in our great love and our future together. In fact I already feel a little bit married already with all the “housewife” shores I love doing so much. This is our great commitment to each other and for me this is more than enough.

For my parent in the other hands especially brought up in the Thai culture ‘being married and wedding’ is ‘a commitment’. I totally understand where they are coming from as they do not get any younger and hoping to see me settle down before their end day. Deep down they just want me to be happy and knowing that someone will take care of me when they are gone.  That is when a little fear crip in our thoughts a little bit. Hurr….

Let’s change to subject a little bit as it sound a little too serious now.

Even Blair Waldrof is getting married (On Mon 30^th 8/7c) ! Whether or not she go through with it or not (I hope she won’t let Chuck down), her dress is one of my favorite this year. Despite Kate Middelton’s last year.    Of cause it could not be anything but Vera for the Hollywood but why not since she has done such a great job. A Grace Kelly’s inspired ivory sleeve three layer laced A-line flowy wedding gown is part of the 2010 Fall Bridal Collection and surly is one of a kind dress. (Blair wears it without the sleeve part). Ivanka Trump had it custom made for her wedding back in 2009.

What do you think? Do you like it or you have your other fabulous favorite? You are welcome to share ;)

Buying with good karma

Those of you who knows me would know I believe in good karma. And what is better than to get cute Marni for H&M t-shirt and donate part of the money to Japanese Red Cross Society. Lets just hope we all get in line before my good karma can be purchase. ;)

What comes along goes along.

Just recently I received a news, not a very good news unfortunately, from a friend of mine that her life is not working out as planed and that she will no longer stay in Sweden.  I totally understand her situation but still at the same time I really do wish she would stay. I feel like it is such destiny for us both to meet. Some friends just ‘click’ in this spiritual indescribable way. I have a feeling we will be good friends and I very hate I could only do online friendship with her now.

That is the thing with destiny. I have always believed that things happen for reason. People meets, become friends, and even lover because of destiny. And when things happen in life though it was undeniable sad, I still believe it happens for reason. Usually those give reason in life for us to learn from and some time it also left us a scar. There is no value in life if you have not learnt anything from it. There is another thing I believe in. It will always be something greater once you truly live again.

Who knows where destiny will take you and maybe one day when you look back in the days you will understand the reason behind everything.

Be sad and cry if your heart needs to, but always remember tomorrow is another day. Time is always the answer to everything. And time will make me miss you.