Relationship & Time

Just yesterday we celebrated our 2 years relationship with my boyfriends. As I was joking with his in-law sister that we will probably stop making a big deal out of it after 5 years. It got me thinking about this time and relationship thing especially when some of my best friend is struggling with the issue.

Once you are in a relationship it is great that you cherish the important of your relationship. It’s kind of a reminder of how far you have come and what you have been through throughout the year. You appreciated each other more as you go on with life.



"Love is always a big gamble"



On the other hand it should also reflect how healthy of your relationship is. Are you still happy most of the time, are you still looking forward to spend days (or even rest of your life) with him/her, do you feel tired most of the time? I don’t believe there is a perfect couple in the world. Once in a while you fight or argue but after all that, will you say it’s just a small obstacle that we will get pass or is it something that constantly punching your heart. Or even the big question if you see yourself spending the rest of your life together. Don’t get stuck because you spend 7 years together. Time is moving fast these days. And after all it is part of your life that you can choose to remember or forget. I’m sure there’s a great memorable moment that will always stay with you. But if it’s not then it’s not. Don’t fight just because time constructed you.

Personally I believe that you are what you are today due to the experience of your life therefore you cannot draw out this important chapter. And we still have so much to look forward to (speaking of my generation) but still we are not little teenager who experience love like mad medicine. It is important to find a relationship that possibly be your future (if you choose to be in one) but don’t feel guilty of leaving one when there’s no future. Life is better of single if you are happier. Don’t let time define your relationship especially your own life. You have a privilege to pick what is best for you, don’t ruin it!

As for me; Great relationship is the one that allow you to grow as a person together in life and being with the person who bring out the best in you no matter how many years have passed.